Anonymous asked: As a guy who has been rejected countless times in a hopeless attempt at love, not sex, but real LOVE, i find Lamenting The Friend Zone a bit off. I understand and agree with what you're saying 100% but i don't think it helps saying "... rather than based on the fact that he had a chance, and blew it." So if i ask a girl out and she says no it's my fault and somehow i blew it? To my understanding it was no one's fault so how could i blew it?
I’m not meaning to imply fault either way; I was more trying to say that if the attempt doesn’t work, the girl isn’t obligated to let the guy try again.
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