Hey Supernatural fandom,
Let’s talk about how yesterday you spent the entire day tearing me apart and calling me poison, blaming me for the negativity in your fandom, lecturing me for generalizing you, sending me hate, all because I didn’t buy into some circle jerk tone deaf post going around where y’all congratulated each other on how great your fandom was while simultaneously dismissing the shit I’ve dealt with from you. Half the names on that post were people who’d told me to kill myself over the years, but of course that didn’t matter these are my friends and our fandom is amazing and we don’t tolerate negativity.
That post, as it turns out, with all its precious positivity, was written by someone who FAKED THEIR SUICIDE AND LIED ABOUT IT JUST TO FUCK WITH ME. Literally just to hurt me.
No one in the Supernatural fandom has a leg to stand on anymore.
You don’t get to call me poison.
You don’t get to lecture me about generalizing your fandom.
You don’t get to ask for my trust.
You don’t get to say “not all of us are like that.”
You don’t get to call yourself a family.
Once again, the replies this post is filled with meaningless platitudes and “not all Supernatural fans!”, but too many people seem to be ignoring the real issue. For years, Elicia has been telling us what she’s faced, and been ignored, accused of lying to get attention, threatened, and worse. But as a fandom we need to open our fucking eyes and actually look for a moment.
This most recent instance happened in the public eye. We saw everything. And it went exactly the way Elicia has been telling us it goes for years. Someone started off by being somewhat supportive, but when Elicia pointed out the hypocrisy in their post, they turned on her in a matter of hours and faked their own suicide, just to lash out and hurt her.
Read that again. Slowly. Take it in. Someone posted that they had killed themselves, and blamed Elicia for it, all because she had asked that they stop and consider things from her side. They blamed a wonderful individual, one who had done nothing wrong, one who has publicly struggled with depression and breakdowns and suicidal thoughts. And she was blamed for someone else’s “suicide”. As a joke. Or an attack. Or just to be unthinkingly cruel. Whatever they were intending, it caused an unspeakable amount of harm to Elicia. And we watched it happen. There’s no denying this happened, no possibility that Elicia faked it. This was your average member of the Supernatural fandom who turned on Elicia in a matter of hours.
So open your eyes. Pay attention. If you’re disgusted now, or horrified, good. You should be. Because this shit is happening ALL THE TIME. Realize what’s happening, and take steps to stop it. Talk to your friends, your followers, larger blogs you follow, whoever you can. Make sure they realize that this isn’t acceptable. Because as a fandom, we should be better than this. We’re not. We never have been. But we should be.
So this is the dumspter fire I was talking about yesterday in my Blanket Positivity post and I’m reblogging because I think this should be seen. I think people need to know that this is happening.
Also, don’t start with the “NOT ALL THE SPN FANDOM!” bullshit, because we fucking know that. But it’s enough of them to make everybody look bad. So how about instead of trying to defend your friends and 💖💖💖spread the love 💖💖💖 you spread righteous anger?
I’ll start: If I find out that any of you fucking gremlins is sending hate, death threats or suicide-baiting messages to Elicia or anyone else, I will publicly fight you. I will call you out so everyone knows what a fucking asshole you are. You’re probably beyond shame at this point, but hopefully we can warn others about what a toxic person you are. I’m not gonna stay silent. I have absolutely no qualms about getting into “drama” and “being negative”, I screenshot everything, and I have zero fucks to give. So… cut that shit out.
This is what happened y’all
Everyone keeps asking me & I’m too tired and those hearts make me itch lol
I’ve never understood the hate @eliciadonze gets just for making gorgeous art. Nobody should have to deal with what she’s been put through.
(via porcupine-girl)
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