marulaoil asked: by mild biphobia i actually meant micro aggression but yeah it rubbed me wrong because if I entered a relationship with a guy it would immediately become queer because i'm bisexual and I can't have a 'straight relationship' but I understand you can't include the complexity of bisexual relationships in a twitter rant and different bisexuals would feel differently about that one case
No, I get it, and I’m sorry to have upset you. This is something I’m thinking about a lot at the moment, though, and I actually found it really difficult to reply to your comment - am finding it difficult to reply here, in fact - because I’m monogamously married to a straight man, but very, very recently realised that I’m genderqueer (of which my husband is fully supportive), and I wasn’t sure how to articulate that in my reply without starting another conversation altogether. Which, I guess this now constitutes me coming out on the internet, so. Um. Yeah.
Point being, this struck a nerve, because I don’t like the idea of defining my relationship as either queer or straight - the latter because I’m not, and the former because my husband’s not, and I don’t see why either of our sexualities should have more of a defining say than the other in how the combination is perceived. The fact that I’ve had an epiphany about who I am doesn’t change his orientation, and it doesn’t change our marriage.
Complex sexualities woooo!
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